Spreading Wings, Building Character

This news just in from preschool: Laila is continuing to exercise her independence and is doing a good job in determining her individuality. She is freely expressing her budding artistic talents, indulging herself in the world tastes and textures.

That's Mommyspeak for 'Teacher Reg called my attention over Laila's inattention during class.'

Apparently, Laila's not been coloring inside the lines as she is supposed to and has gotten into a habit of pouring out her milk when Teacher Reg tells the class to pack away their snack things. Teacher says Laila colored really well until a few days ago when she began coloring way beyond the lines.

Slap me silly now, but I don't think that it's such a big deal. To be honest, I am delighted by it. I feel that she's pushing her individuality. And I'm glad that she is. I don't want a drone for a daughter.

As for the milk spilling, I think she sees us throwing away unfinished glasses of water at home. Perhaps she thinks that's the proper way to pack away unfinished drinks. Well, I don't want her to grow up wasteful so it's something I have to deal with.

My sister thinks I should be more strict with Laila. Otherwise, she warns, Baby Cat would grow up like her second youngest, Utoy, who's a bit naughty. I don't think he's naughty, though. A bit misguided, probably, but not a lost case. Living with the grandparents is a big factor in Utoy's demeanor. But he'll grow out of their babying.

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Laila is quick witted like Utoy, though. Utoy has an excuse for everything, from not doing his homework or playing too much. Laila is almost the same.

I had a talk with Baby Cat about Teacher Reg's observations. After a few minutes into my monologue, she suggested we comb her dollies' hair. I told her we'll play later after Mommy finishes her her.

She told me her ears were already hurting.

I had a hard time keeping myself from laughing out loud.

My sister would say that it's another indication that I should be stricter with Laila, or have another baby so Baby Cat would learn more about responsibility.

I think Laila's just exercising her individuality.